“The abuser engineer’s impossible, dangerous, unpredictable, unprecedented, or highly specific situations in which he is needed, depended on or considered the only source of authority, knowledge, skills, or useful traits. Consequently, the abuser generates his own indispensability. In his/her mind and yours, you are completely dependent on him and you should never forget it. The moment you do, he will find someway to put you in your place again.”
Crafty and Manipulative
Strategic and carefully planned
Overt or Covert… it’s all about control
Sly and underhanded
Not easily recoginized
Intimidating
No visible scars
Only Scars on the heart
Unpredictiable
Walking on eggshells
Fear of failure
In a fog, just going through the motions
No direction, no sense of purpose.
Withholding
Rolling eyes
Heavy sighs
Mumbled sarcasm
Like a hot burning iron pressed to the skin
Is that how love is supposed to sink in?
Raised voices and anger over simple little things
Impossible situations
The complete authority over all things.
Dehumanizing, unsympathetic
Relationships are replaceable, unneeded or wanted.
So Together, but so broken inside…
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